My Recent Experience With eBay – A Cautionary Tale

***I wrote the post below back in early June.  I wasn’t sure if I wanted to post or not, but eBay is back at being, what I can only call, unethical.  Blogger photos are being stolen by sellers to advertise their items.  When eBay was contacted they shared blogger info (which, I’ve been told by probably one of the smartest women I know, is part of a DMCA requirement) to the sellers and in one case known to me, the seller has been harassing one blogger quite a bit.  When will it end?  I’m proud to say bloggers are doing what they can to fight back (check out this post).  I’m mad all over again.  So, I shall now share with you my horrid experience with eBay.

The following is just my opinion.  This account is based on my personal recent experience with eBay. To the extent I say anything derogatory against eBay, it is my personal opinion based on my personal experience with them.

Maybe you’ve had favorable experiences, and I am totally happy for you and hope you continue to have them.  If you have, or if you haven’t, please feel free to use the comments section below to tell your story, or link to a post telling your story.  Please keep the discussion adult.  Thank you!!!

Let’s begin!

eBay is tailored towards buyers.  Are you a seller?  I feel for you.  Because someday someone just MAY file a claim and say you sold them something not as described.  Sucks to be you, because (based on my experience) eBay doesn’t care if you’re reputable or if you have proof.  They don’t even care if your buyer has proof of their claims.  All they care about is making the buyer happy so that they spend more money and help the dishonest ones defraud more people.

They might tell you they protect their sellers, you might even read about it on their website.  But those are just words.  No action.  All you can do, as a seller, is report the buyer for Buyer Protection Policy Abuse.  AKA crap in one hand and wish in the other.

Here is what happened to me.

I sold a pair of AUTHENTIC (I have the receipt as PROOF) Chanel Sunglasses to a buyer with no feedback.  Okay, that was my bad.  I should never have accepted her offer.  Lesson learned.  Shipped quickly, item arrived.  Approximately 45 minutes after item delivery the buyer opened a not as described claim.  She said she tried to contact me before she did it (that’s obviously false), that the item was damaged, not as described, fake, and had no serial number.  She offered no proof of this.  I responded, offering proof of authenticity.  eBay decided in her favor, no questions asked, didn’t even ask to see my proof.  They instructed her to return the item for a full refund.  Which she immediately printed a label for and the glasses arrived back in a few days.  Thankfully they arrived back exactly as I had sent them.  Authentic, undamaged and with serial number intact.  Image that.

Peep the receipt (this is just one of 8 that I had ready to send):

Also, I checked her recent buying activity and saw she has purchased two OTHER pairs of Chanel glasses (which clearly ARE fakes, IMO) for $80 and $86, respectively, after she filed the claim on me.

I spoke with customer service about this three times.

The first time, I spoke with someone that I couldn’t understand, that definitely could not understand me.  I read her the item number off of the receipt and she said she marked that down on the notes so that the agent who was deciding the case could contact Chanel and verify the authenticity.  The next morning, the case was decided in the buyers favor.

I called eBay a second time.  This time I spoke with a woman who was extremely helpful.  She told me the first woman never marked down that information and that she should have because it would have helped the decision and aided them in a more accurate response.  She told me to wait for the glasses to arrive and file an appeal.  After that, since it was eBays fault on the wrong decision, eBay would “take care of me”.  Okay, sounds good.

Today I called eBay the third time.  Spoke with a woman who agreed that the whole situation was super shady but nothing she can do.  She also told me that the person deciding the outcome of my claim was OUTSOURCED and not even in the same STATE as her.  What?!  So I asked for a supervisor.  I was put in touch with Jeremy, who is likely the most condescending person I’ve ever spoken to.  He has NO CLUE what he’s talking about and all he did was shout over me and treat me like garbage.

So not only did my buyer defraud me, eBay defrauded me.  eBay failed me, as a longtime seller and buyer.  I have been selling on eBay since 1999, have 747 all positive feedbacks and no marks on my record.  eBay used to be the greatest place to buy, sell, and even chat with others.  Their practices now are a total 180 of the eBay from the past.  I realize that it’s important for companies to grow and make money, but I think it’s even more important for a company to remember it’s roots.

I will NEVER sell on eBay again.  I urge you to please be aware of eBays practices, apparent lack of seller protection,  and also familiarize yourself with their buyer protection policy.  It *says* they don’t refund for buyers remorse… but they do, all the buyer has to do is lie.

**Special thank you to the beautiful and legal mind of  Beauty & Fashion Tech and the always masterful and intelligent Pink Sith for answering my questions and being majorly awesome!

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14 comments on “My Recent Experience With eBay – A Cautionary Tale

  1. Claudia W on said:

    I’m sorry that this has happened to you! I have also had some really bad experiences with selling on Ebay, too, where they sided with the buyer even though she had an old shipping address listed. Of course, I had tried numerous times to contact her, but she never replied & only contacted me angrily when she hadn’t gotten her stuff! She left me negative feedback, which Ebay wouldn’t remove; even though SHE was at fault!

    • I’ve heard that happen quite a bit. My mom used to be a power seller on there but has backed off because of some unethical buyers and ebays apparent unwillingness to investigate.

    • Cindy A. on said:

      The same thing happened to me! I had been selling on Ebay for years, had all positive feedbacks and not one single person had ever opened a dispute on me. Ebay could have cared less. They sided with the buyer, left the negative feedback intact and completely ruined my trust in them. Never again!

  2. I agree with you that ebay has become a nightmare–they NEVER side with the seller. . As far as blogger photos being stolen, there is a section on the auction page where you can report the seller for theft of your photos (I know, big deal– ebay probably doesn’t do anything about it anyway). If I were a blogger, I’d watermark every photo. There is also a free program that will prevent the lazy thief from being able to right click the pic, losing the ability to save it. As a former ebay seller, I feel your pain.

  3. I had a the worst experience ever with Ebay/ Paypal I sold a Louis Vuitton wallet 100% Authentic, never used wallet I paid over $800.00 for the wallet but never used, so decided to sell it.
    I sold it for $550.00 right, got DC and everything, then they opened a dispute and said they never received item, even though I used UPS and had tracking number , but no Signature…. Yes , they sided with them, so they got a Brand new authentic Louis Vuitton wallet for free basically and I lost the $550.00 I sold it for. That was below the belt!!!

  4. You can try Copious or Listia

  5. Oh wow! I hate having to open cases on eBay but it is inevitable. I’ve had a few sellers not send the item I won or send me an item that doesn’t work and won’t respond to me. A little over a month ago I bought a new bluetooth headset and the seller had great feedback. After I received the item not working, I sent a few messages with no response. I look at his profile and the negative feedback skyrocketed after my purchase. The seller didn’t have any negative feedback but by the time I escalated my case, it was well over 100.

    • that is horrible =( there are definitely just as many horrible sellers as buyers… and it’s even more horrible when a good seller goes bad. ebay/paypal definitely work better for the buyer. eBay needs major improvement in how they treat sellers as well as in their customer service area

  6. That’s horrible! My dad has sold on eBay for years and has bought some things for me, but thankfully nothing bad has happened- But I prefer to use Amazon for buying now, even if it’s more expensive!
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  7. Seems at least twice a week, I read an Ebay seller horror story. There are so many out there I’m surprised anyone is brave enough to do it anymore, really.

    It’s not just sellers. I had a terrible experience with Ebay as a buyer, and haven’t done business with them since 2006. It doesn’t matter how right you are…Ebay just doesn’t care about people.

    The above comment is just my own personal opinion based on my own experiences and observations.

  8. That really sucks, and puts me off ever wanting to deal with ebay. :/
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